Internet online dating is not a new fad in the market, but rather in recent years it has evolved into a popular alternative for singles to look for their other half.
There are many reasons why singles, young and old, find joy in meeting new friends through online dating.
Pros of online dating:
1) For the young and single who spends a lot of time at work, online dating provides an opportunity for them to screen and meet someone they might click with. Very often, these young professionals are married to their jobs and do not have the time to meet new friends outside their social circles. Online dating is a quick and easy alternative to get out of their comfort zone and widen their social network.
2) For the mature group, age might be a barrier to knowing new friends. Their social circle and lifestyle would have been quite established and most of their peers would have been married or attached. Online dating gives them an avenue to meet someone close to their age, but probably resides in a different town or city.
3) Online dating involves reading the profiles of others before you decide if you wish to make friends with them. This can save some time as you can filter friends you would like to know based on their age group, interests and other aspects that appeals to you.
4) Online dating profiles also include a picture of the person you are writing to. This is better than a blind date where you have no idea of how the other party even looks like!
5) Shy people find online dating easier to deal with as they might be better with their writing than with their words. Being anonymous initially actually empowers them to say things that they possibly might never have the courage to. These people might have few friends in person, but many admirers on cyberspace!
Cons of online dating:
1) Online dating can get quite addictive, as it is so convenient to log on and find someone new to talk to.
2) Some people join online dating to find short term solutions for their loneliness and boredom. The person on the other end may not be serious in going into a friendship or even relationship with you. You may find yourself being taken for granted only after spending some time corresponding with them.
3) Online profiles only provide you with information and photos that others put about themselves. They might not be truthful in all aspects and you might get an unexpected surprise after you meet them in person.
But still, internet dating is here to stay and it's only going to grow. It's another option one can choose to meet new people, especially if you have exhausted your current social or business circles. Give it a try, and take it as an opportunity to make new friends. Who knows? You might find the love of your life there!
Authored By:
Angela Tay
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