Signs That He Is Serious About You

10 signs to tell that he is serious about you!

1) He seeks your opinion in everything from minor decisions to major ones

It could be something as simple as buying a tie to match his shirt. Or major ones like what car he should buy. It shows that he values your opinions and thinks that you have great judgement and insight as well.

2) He wants you to meet his family, friends and everybody else

He is serious in making you part of his social circle and does not see you as just another casual date when he wants you to meet his family.

3) He spends a lot of time together with you

If he is not genuinely interested in you, would he spend time with you rather than go for his favourite soccer match with his buddies?

4) He does not show signs that he is terrified when you mention something happening in a year or two

It shows that he is serious about the relationship he has with you. He can see himself being with you even two years later.

5) He calls you many times a day, but does not admit he misses you

When he calls you, he may find an excuse to do so, like asking you what you are doing currently, finding out what you have eaten for dinner, but never saying the words "I miss hearing your voice, that's why I called".

6) He remembers your favourite food and brings it to you by surprise

You probably casually mentioned that you love the brownie from that café only once, but he remembered and brought it to you without you asking for it. If he is not serious about you, would he have remembered what you say to such detail?

7) He lets you choose the restaurants you want to go and the movies you want to watch

Even if he does not like spicy stuff, but you love curry to bits, he will accompany you and even treat you to a meal at a nice Indian restaurant. How sweet can it get? If he does not treat you seriously, why would he bother to cater to you?

8) He can't wait to tell you what happened in the day

Every night he updates you with how he spent his day, without you asking first. He finds it a joy sharing these intimate details with you. When he hears a new joke, he can't wait to call you immediately and make you laugh.

9) He is willing to share details of his finances with you

The topic of finances can be quite sensitive and is usually not something that is openly shared, even with friends. If he is willing to tell you, he probably treats you more than a casual friend!

10) He rushes to your side upon hearing that you are sick

Even if it is really late at night and he has an important meeting the next morning, he is willing to come and bring you to the doctor. Only a guy who is serious about you will be that worried!

Well, if you find all these signs all too familiar, it is most likely true that he is serious about you and your relationship. Although he may not have said the three magic words to you yet and have not officially asked you to be his gal, you can be quite assured that he really cares about you. If you like him as well, you can be sure that it will be reciprocated. Just don't take too long to admit how you both feel about each other!

Authored By:
Angela Tay

5 Tips On How You Can Dress To Impress Your Date

We all know men are visual creatures. Comparing a plainly dressed woman with a well dressed woman, the latter will definitely look more attractive! Even if you are not the hottest babe in town, you can still be a head-turner with the clothes you wear!

1) Make sure you do not wear clothes that are out of date or too trendy for you

If you have clothes hanging in your wardrobe for the last decade, check if they are very out of date already. If you wear out of date stuff, it gives the guy an impression that you belong to the last era too. Of course, sometimes retro fashion does make a comeback, but if your clothes are nowhere near the current retro style, keep them out of your date's sight.

If you are a woman of mature age, dressing to look like a young adult may actually look strange on you. Keep abreast of the latest fashion trends, but do not overdo it as it may actually backfire if the trendiest look does not suit you at all.

If you are not sure what is good for you, stick to traditional, classic fare. Go to shopping malls; look around at the department that stocks clothing for your age group. You can also ask the salespeople for advice and suggestions too.

2) Wear only clothes that fit nicely on you

Wearing clothes that fit makes a huge difference to how you look! Imagine wearing a loose-fitting tee compared to one that is more fitted. Visually, you will look a lot slimmer in the fitted tee. Sometimes, larger sizes make one look sloppy, so if you have the figure, flaunt it! For bottoms, if you are wearing pants, make sure the bottom hem is not too long such that it is dragging on the ground when you walk. If you wear heels, the perfect length for the bottom hem should end slightly above your heels. If you are short, avoid wearing skirts that are too long. If you are pear shaped, opt for A-line skirts with hems that end below the knee to soften your heavy hips and thighs.

3) Check if your outfit is well-coordinated

Sometimes when we walk along the streets, we can't help but take a second look at people. It is not because they are attractive, but rather they distract us with their mismatched outfit! If you have a two piece outfit, but they can't blend with each other, you will end up looking really weird. Make sure the colors, fabrics and styles of your coordinated outfit can match each other. Also, pay attention to accessories like earrings, scarves, belts and shoes which you might wear with your clothes as well.

4) Dress according to the occasion

If it is a casual outing to the beach, tank-tops, short sleeved cotton tees, shorts and slacks are most comfy and will blend nicely with your outdoor activities. But if the occasion is more formal like dining in an expensive restaurant, take the initiative to dress up. Overdressing is still acceptable socially, but if you turn up under dressed for the occasion, it will embarrass your date and you may never see him again the second time.

5) Make a difference to your outfit with accessories

For ladies, we have so many choices of accessories that we can use to complement our clothes. A nice pair of earrings, bangles or a pretty scarf can add some zest even to a plain outfit. Even the bag we carry and the shoes we wear with our outfit can transform the way we look. But do not overdo the accessories part, keep it to a maximum of three accessories, otherwise you may end up looking like a Christmas tree!

It's true in a certain way that the way you dress can improve the way you look. Complete it with nicely manicured nails, nice smelling hair, and a sweet smelling breath; you will be the most unforgettable date ever!

Authored By:
Angela Tay

7 Ways To Look More Attractive To The Opposite Sex

There are many ways you can make yourself more attractive. First and foremost you have to work on your physical appearance! It takes only a few seconds to form a first impression, so how you look to the other person plays a very important part in how he or she feels about you initially.

These are 7 ways to improve your appearance, do not belittle their importance as how you look often comes in an overall package.

1) Get a suitable hair cut

For women, if you are wearing your hair long, it does not mean you can ignore it for years! As it is growing longer, there may be uneven lengths that may make you look untidy. You will be surprised at how a simple trim can do wonders to how you look. Men are usually most attracted to hair that are smooth and silky and long enough for them to run their fingers through.

For men, keeping it short is usually the easiest. If you are not suited for long hair, do not attempt to keep it long as it will only make you look sloppy. If you are balding, you may consider shaving it off totally for a cooler look.

2) Watch your weight

If you have always wanted to lose that extra flab, put it into action now. How good you feel about yourself often rubs off on someone else and makes you seemingly more attractive. Men are often attracted first to women who are slim but have curves at the right proportions. Having a figure of an apple is not going to put you on his radar. Women too, are guilty of drooling over men with six pack abs than those with a pot belly. Watching your weight reflects the fact that you still make an effort to take care of your own body and health and that can give the other person a better impression.

3) Get rid of hair at the wrong places

A man usually doesn’t like a woman to have hair more than he does, except the hair on her head. So if you have unwanted hair on your face, underarms, your legs, etc, do something about it. The same goes for men too, if you have nose hair coming out of your nostrils, it would be a huge distraction to the person you are talking to. These are all part of personal grooming and if left ignored, could appear as a huge turn-off for the opposite sex.

4) Clean fingernails or toenails at an appropriate length

Fingernails that are filthy say a lot about you. You may give the other person an impression that you do not bother about your personal hygiene at all. If you are not sure how to take care of your nails, go for a proper manicure. For women, you can also put on nail polish for a sexier look.

5) Your teeth and your smile

How your teeth look often affects your smile. If you are missing a tooth, consider fixing the gap. It can be quite shocking to see a beautiful person exposing unsightly teeth when they smile or laugh. If you have crooked teeth, you can consider going for orthodontic treatment to correct it while you are young. It is a worthwhile investment to make that really improves how you look!

6) Update your wardrobe

If you have a wardrobe as dated as yourself, it’s time to pick up some new clothes. A wise choice is to get classic and timeless pieces that you can mix and match. Check out fashion magazines and stores for the latest trends, but do not follow them blindly. If in doubt, ask the salespeople for advice on stocking up your new wardrobe.

7) Match your accessories

Accessories like shoes, jewelery, belts, etc, can make a huge difference to what you are wearing, but don’t overdo the bling effect. Too much of these are distracting and a turn-off if they look cheap. Sometimes, less is classy, and having the appropriate piece can make you look like a million bucks.

Trying to impress the opposite sex is often as simple as knowing what works for yourself. When you feel good about how you look, you will naturally exude the charm and attractiveness that you have been looking for.

Authored By:
Angela Tay