8 Easy & Effective Flirting Tips For Girls

When someone catches your eye, the most effective way of letting him know is to flirt with him. But do it in a subtle way such that the man you are attracted to will not think you are one desperate woman. The most effective way of flirting is to capture his attention , yet move your attention away such that you get him wanting for more.

These are 8 tips that you can use in your flirting techniques. Try them out and see what works best for your man!

1) Have a positive attitude. Be enthusiastic about life. Men love women who have a happy outlook. If you have a sunny personality by nature, it is your natural flirting weapon as your optimism will rub off on them in some way.

2) When you meet new people, give your widest smile! A sincere smile draws attention. At least they know if they talk to you, you won't bite!

3) Make eye contact. This is a very powerful flirting technique. Look exclusively into the eyes of the person you are attracted to and make sure they notice. When their eyes make contact with yours, smile and pretend to look at something else for a few seconds before returning your gaze again. Give your most playful look. Practise in front of the mirror till you get it right.

4) When making small talk, focus on light-hearted topics, especially if you are talking to the person for the first time. Pay attention to what they say, don't let them do all the talking, but respond and initiate new topics when necessary. Keep the conversation flowing and natural.

5) Listen when it's necessary. Do not interrupt midway with every sentence he says. Respond only when he has completed his point. He will find it a joy to talk to you as you are able to give him the attention he needs.

6) Make use of flirting "props". If you are in for the flirting mood anytime, always carry something that can make great conversation openers. It could be an unusual handbag, an interesting book, or a unique piece of jewelery. This provides opportunities and reasons for someone to start talking to you.

7) Smell good. If you do not put on fancy fragrances, at least smell fresh! There is nothing sexier than a woman who smells nice. Work on areas like your hair and your breath as well. Sometimes, a great smell is known to stop men in their tracks just to look at the woman who just walked past them. The scent of a woman is a powerful, but overlooked flirting technique, use it in your favour.

8) Use your body language effectively. Touching yourself on the lips, neck or twirling your hair, sends signals to a man that you might be interested in him. Tapping him lightly or playfully when talking to him is also a sign that you feel comfortable with him.

Flirting can be pretty harmless. Even friends flirt with each other just for fun. Practice makes perfect, once you start flirting, you will just get better in no time!

Authored By:
Angela Tay