These are a few ways you can catch the attention of any man you are keen on and they are really easy!
1) When he is talking, give him your full attention. You can probably lean slightly towards him as well. Smile and nod at times to show that you are listening. Even if he is talking to a few people, he will notice how attentive and interested you are in what he is saying.
2) Look into his eyes when talking to him. Do not be afraid of eye contact, but draw the line at staring as that will make him feel uncomfortable! Instead linger your gaze for a second longer than usual at times when you talk to him, and then look away at another part of his face. This flirtatious move is meant to show him that you are attracted to him and creates a moment of intimacy between the both of you at that instant.
3) When you are both sitting opposite each other, toss your hair and play with it gently. Touch yourself subtly on the face, neck, chest, arms, etc. This is meant to make him notice you more and is a very obvious way of telling him that you are hoping he will make the next move!
4) Touch him intentionally sometimes, but make it look unintentional. You can touch his hand or arm for a second when you are speaking or gesturing a point. Make it quick, gentle and casual so that he does not feel its obtrusive. Men will always notice women who touch them, especially if it's the first few times, as they will be surprised at how comfortable you are with them. Grab his arm when you are crossing the road with him and let go when you reach the other side. It will excite him and end so fast that he has no time to react!
5) Wear outfits that reveal a bit more skin when you are out with him especially. Men are visual creatures and they feel flattered if you bother to dress up for them. Sexy does not mean distasteful though. Stop short of wearing clothes which makes you look like someone from a red-light district! You can show more skin with a low back top, a shorter skirt or heels with peeping toes. Be creative and not cheap!
6) Whisper to him at times. This works especially well in places where it is noisy. When you want to tell him something, ask him to get close to you and whisper into his ear. As you speak, the warm air you breathe creates such an intimate moment between the both of you. It is a very powerful and easy way to get his adrenalin pumping!
7) Look at him and be obvious about it. Of course, there are many places you can look at; I'm not referring to where you might be thinking! The best way you can check him out is to sweep your gaze across his body. The trick is to get him to notice that you are looking while talking, but return your attention to his face quickly and continue your conversation like it never happened. I'm sure he is dying to ask what you might be looking at, and this is because he is really flattered at you checking him out!
Well, these seductive moves work on almost any man, if they are intelligent enough to read your message. Try them out on the man you are attracted to now. If he has no idea why you are doing all these, maybe its time you give him a miss and move on to someone else! Good luck.
Authored By:
Angela Tay
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Are Me and My Partner Compatible? 5 Questions You Can Ask to Check Your Compatibility
These are questions you might ask yourself if you are currently dating. By reviewing your relationship from time to time, you will know if both of you are able to have a happy future together.
1) Do you have the same goals in life? Do you have the same plans to how the relationship would go?
For example, if you are career minded, but he would like you to focus more on the family after marriage, would you be able to adapt to it or come to a compromise? If you look forward to working overseas, but she hates having to deal with a long-distance relationship, do you think it would work long-term? There are many questions both of you have to ask each other. If there is a major disagreement on a certain issue and both of you hang on to the relationship hoping the other person would change his or her mind, time is lost. Even if you avoid talking about the issue, you will not be able to come to a solution. You have to share your thoughts with each other and work out your goals together if you would like to move on to the next phase of your relationship.
2) Are you both on the same "wavelength"?
Communication between partners is very crucial in a relationship. If you find yourself often misunderstood by your partner, you will find it a chore to talk to each other. It is important to feel that you are on the same "wavelength" with your partner, be it just a casual chat or serious discussion. It takes two hands to clap, and if your other half is able to connect to what you are trying to say, you will look forward to exchanging ideas and responses with each other. Sometimes, we wonder why couples are able to finish off each other's sentences when they talk. Well, that is really a fine example of knowing each other inside out and this kind of relationship often lasts a lot longer.
3) How about your take on bread and butter issues?
Money is often one of the most common things couple fight about. Issues about who's making the money, not making enough money, how to spend the money, etc, often crop up in a relationship. There is a Chinese saying that says "Money hurts relationships" and that is very true. If both of you are always arguing about financial issues, you are financially incompatible and these disputes create rifts in your relationship. You will not be happy even if you get married as these bread and butter problems will always be around. Unless both of you are willing to work things out early in the relationship.
4) Do you share the same interests? Or at least some of them?
Everybody is different. Do not expect your partner to like all the things that you enjoy doing, but if both of you can come to a compromise about how time can be spent, you are still considered compatible. For example, if your idea of de-stressing is to go out for shopping therapy, your partner may not like the thought of tagging along and following you around. Similarly, his idea of chilling out at home playing his video games may not excite you. But if both of you are willing to take turns to give in to each other's activities, your relationship can still work out. To find a partner who shares exactly your same interests is rare, so we should look at the big picture and give each other the space when necessary.
5) Are you compatible in culture and religion?
The more similar you are, usually the more compatible your match will be. If you are a staunch Christian, but your partner is a devout Buddhist or Muslim, it may become too difficult later on in the relationship even if you do not see the problems arising now. If both of you are very firm in your beliefs, it is never possible to change each other's mind, so do take a second thought about the relationship in the long-term. If you are of different races, sometimes you may meet family objections and pressure as well. But if both of you are willing to go through it together, compatibility is not determined by others, but yourselves. There are many couples who have overcome these obstacles and are much happier than those of similar culture and religion!
These are just 5 of the compatibility questions you can ask yourself. Whether you and your partner are compatible to each other depends on the similarities that bring you two together and your willingness as a couple to work out any kinks to the differences.
I wish you success in dating and love!
Authored By:
Angela Tay
1) Do you have the same goals in life? Do you have the same plans to how the relationship would go?
For example, if you are career minded, but he would like you to focus more on the family after marriage, would you be able to adapt to it or come to a compromise? If you look forward to working overseas, but she hates having to deal with a long-distance relationship, do you think it would work long-term? There are many questions both of you have to ask each other. If there is a major disagreement on a certain issue and both of you hang on to the relationship hoping the other person would change his or her mind, time is lost. Even if you avoid talking about the issue, you will not be able to come to a solution. You have to share your thoughts with each other and work out your goals together if you would like to move on to the next phase of your relationship.
2) Are you both on the same "wavelength"?
Communication between partners is very crucial in a relationship. If you find yourself often misunderstood by your partner, you will find it a chore to talk to each other. It is important to feel that you are on the same "wavelength" with your partner, be it just a casual chat or serious discussion. It takes two hands to clap, and if your other half is able to connect to what you are trying to say, you will look forward to exchanging ideas and responses with each other. Sometimes, we wonder why couples are able to finish off each other's sentences when they talk. Well, that is really a fine example of knowing each other inside out and this kind of relationship often lasts a lot longer.
3) How about your take on bread and butter issues?
Money is often one of the most common things couple fight about. Issues about who's making the money, not making enough money, how to spend the money, etc, often crop up in a relationship. There is a Chinese saying that says "Money hurts relationships" and that is very true. If both of you are always arguing about financial issues, you are financially incompatible and these disputes create rifts in your relationship. You will not be happy even if you get married as these bread and butter problems will always be around. Unless both of you are willing to work things out early in the relationship.
4) Do you share the same interests? Or at least some of them?
Everybody is different. Do not expect your partner to like all the things that you enjoy doing, but if both of you can come to a compromise about how time can be spent, you are still considered compatible. For example, if your idea of de-stressing is to go out for shopping therapy, your partner may not like the thought of tagging along and following you around. Similarly, his idea of chilling out at home playing his video games may not excite you. But if both of you are willing to take turns to give in to each other's activities, your relationship can still work out. To find a partner who shares exactly your same interests is rare, so we should look at the big picture and give each other the space when necessary.
5) Are you compatible in culture and religion?
The more similar you are, usually the more compatible your match will be. If you are a staunch Christian, but your partner is a devout Buddhist or Muslim, it may become too difficult later on in the relationship even if you do not see the problems arising now. If both of you are very firm in your beliefs, it is never possible to change each other's mind, so do take a second thought about the relationship in the long-term. If you are of different races, sometimes you may meet family objections and pressure as well. But if both of you are willing to go through it together, compatibility is not determined by others, but yourselves. There are many couples who have overcome these obstacles and are much happier than those of similar culture and religion!
These are just 5 of the compatibility questions you can ask yourself. Whether you and your partner are compatible to each other depends on the similarities that bring you two together and your willingness as a couple to work out any kinks to the differences.
I wish you success in dating and love!
Authored By:
Angela Tay
How To Be Successful In Online Dating
These are a few rules you should observe when participating in online dating. If you are able to keep to these guidelines, your chances of success will be much higher!
1) Find a suitable online dating site
There are many online dating sites in the market, but they usually cater to different categories of people. The larger sites may cater more broadly to a general audience, but there are also those that are unique to the baby boomer generation or older seniors only. Some online dating sites also cater specifically to people of other ethnic or cultural community. Before you join any, check out the type of sites that would attract members who are in line with your interests and age group. Don't join every dating site blindly with the hope that you will get more responses. By being more selective, you would most likely to be able to meet someone who is more compatible to your requirements.
Well, if you are not getting any positive response from your current site, or you might be attracting people whom you are not keen on, you may have joined one that may not be suitable for you. Try another different site and you may get different results!
2) Be honest in your profile
Some people find that when they finally meet the person they have been writing to, the person turns out to be totally opposite of what they expect! When creating an online profile, it can get quite tempting to juice up our own image. But this is not the recommended thing to do. When the person you are writing to meets you for the first time and realises you are someone not even close to your own profile, I bet that will be the last time you hear of him. Do not waste somebody else's time and of course your own. You wouldn't want to know someone who is attracted to the false image you create, and not your true self right? Be as honest as you can in your profile and I'm sure you will attract people who are more sincere in being your friend.
3) Put your best forward in your profile
Make the best out of the profile that describes you. Take a pleasant looking photo, and remember to at least smile in the photo. Treat your profile like your personal advertisement. Write positive things about yourself, how you look at issues, what you enjoy doing, etc. Do not attempt to brag or boast stuff that you are not capable of. Keep your profile true to yourself. This is your first point of contact with any potential friend. If they feel comfortable after reading your profile, they will consider writing to you.
4) Take the initiative to make the move
Most people write to each other for a while before they decide to meet each other. Well, if you wish to improve the odds of finding someone fast, set up a date once you meet someone whom you think you may like and can click with. Make it a casual date at a place where both of you have the opportunity to talk and know each other better. First impressions tell a lot about the person and are only possible to find out when you meet each other face to face.
5) Improve your odds of meeting someone
Take the initiative to start writing to someone whom may interest you as early as you can. Do not just collect a whole lot of profiles and continue shopping for more, but make the mistake of not writing first. Waiting for someone to write to you may take some time, so why not take the first step and improve your chances of meeting someone new? You do not need to write a lot, just a few sentences of self-introduction will do. Do not worry if they don't write back, but continue writing to new profiles. This will improve your odds of meeting someone eventually.
It is always possible to find true love through online dating. Your special someone may be across the globe or just across the street, but your paths do not meet till you find each other online. Well, even if you do not find a love match, you may meet people who make really great pals or compatible business partners. There is nothing to lose really, why not keep your options open?
Authored By:
Angela Tay
1) Find a suitable online dating site
There are many online dating sites in the market, but they usually cater to different categories of people. The larger sites may cater more broadly to a general audience, but there are also those that are unique to the baby boomer generation or older seniors only. Some online dating sites also cater specifically to people of other ethnic or cultural community. Before you join any, check out the type of sites that would attract members who are in line with your interests and age group. Don't join every dating site blindly with the hope that you will get more responses. By being more selective, you would most likely to be able to meet someone who is more compatible to your requirements.
Well, if you are not getting any positive response from your current site, or you might be attracting people whom you are not keen on, you may have joined one that may not be suitable for you. Try another different site and you may get different results!
2) Be honest in your profile
Some people find that when they finally meet the person they have been writing to, the person turns out to be totally opposite of what they expect! When creating an online profile, it can get quite tempting to juice up our own image. But this is not the recommended thing to do. When the person you are writing to meets you for the first time and realises you are someone not even close to your own profile, I bet that will be the last time you hear of him. Do not waste somebody else's time and of course your own. You wouldn't want to know someone who is attracted to the false image you create, and not your true self right? Be as honest as you can in your profile and I'm sure you will attract people who are more sincere in being your friend.
3) Put your best forward in your profile
Make the best out of the profile that describes you. Take a pleasant looking photo, and remember to at least smile in the photo. Treat your profile like your personal advertisement. Write positive things about yourself, how you look at issues, what you enjoy doing, etc. Do not attempt to brag or boast stuff that you are not capable of. Keep your profile true to yourself. This is your first point of contact with any potential friend. If they feel comfortable after reading your profile, they will consider writing to you.
4) Take the initiative to make the move
Most people write to each other for a while before they decide to meet each other. Well, if you wish to improve the odds of finding someone fast, set up a date once you meet someone whom you think you may like and can click with. Make it a casual date at a place where both of you have the opportunity to talk and know each other better. First impressions tell a lot about the person and are only possible to find out when you meet each other face to face.
5) Improve your odds of meeting someone
Take the initiative to start writing to someone whom may interest you as early as you can. Do not just collect a whole lot of profiles and continue shopping for more, but make the mistake of not writing first. Waiting for someone to write to you may take some time, so why not take the first step and improve your chances of meeting someone new? You do not need to write a lot, just a few sentences of self-introduction will do. Do not worry if they don't write back, but continue writing to new profiles. This will improve your odds of meeting someone eventually.
It is always possible to find true love through online dating. Your special someone may be across the globe or just across the street, but your paths do not meet till you find each other online. Well, even if you do not find a love match, you may meet people who make really great pals or compatible business partners. There is nothing to lose really, why not keep your options open?
Authored By:
Angela Tay
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